Hi Aunt Latifa,
For some time now I've been reading your blog and I'm enjoying it very much.
I am a young ex muslima of 25 years of age and I feel very, very lonely. Because I can not find a "soulmate". I am living in Europe, have studied, do have a good job and earn a good living. I still live with my muslim parents.
I tried dating European men, but somehow they don't attract me or don't understand me fully, as our background is different. I would like to find a man with the same culture (Middle East) and an ex muslim like myself. I know that would be the only man I could be happy with.
What is your advice? Thanks in advance!
Lillia
auntlatifa
Dear reader Lillia,
I can understand that it is not easy for an ex-muslima to find the prince on the white horse...
On the other hand, you are still very young and building out a career. You're still at the beginning of your real life as a grown up, so don't be desperate, some day he'll come your way!
Maybe you can help chance a hand by trying internet-relationships, but always be careful and reveal your true identity only when a 100 % sure about your own safety! I am sure there are millions of ex-muslim men out there that could make you happy, the only problem is that apostacy from islam is not something people can talk freely about...
On the other hand, I also do receive a lot of requests like yours and if I judge it safe, I can always bring you into contact with the other candidate. Is that all right with you?
Waiting for your answer,
Aunt latifa 
Reader Comments (1)
Dear Lillia
you are not alnoe , may be there is one care you ,only one , even you did not see that , you can depend on him , and he is supporting you all the way , he is always with you all the time, even you denying him , he is around you , search about him , trust in him ,belive in him!!!
Ahmad