My dear child,

I think you are still very young. And yet married already.

I think also that your husband is also very young and very unexperienced.

Making love doesn't have to hurt my dear, it can even be a wonderful experience, it even should be wonderful. As you love your husband, you'll have to grow towards each other and for that purpose you should spend a lot of time together, without having family around. Get used to each other in a natural way, talk to each other and discuss what is happening to both of you.

It is also possible that you tried to have sex, but that this didn't work out because you are experiencing "vaginism", very often seen in societies where virginity and separation between men/women is very important, such as islamic environments. If this is so, please go and see a doctor to talk about your problem, a solution will be found.

I have to say that your husband is surely a nice man, having all this patience and waiting so long to consume his bride... But apparently his patience has come to an end and I can understand that. Talk to him, let him go with you to the doctor, so he will understand.

I wish you good luck, warmest regards,

Aunt Latifa